• Relationships

    Gaslighting, The Light that Keeps on Giving

    I’m what most consider to be a nice person. I’ve even been accused of having an almost naïve childlike disposition. Understanding, wide eyed…ready for the slaughter. I think this is especially true in dating. I have no problem admitting I’m an easy mark for most men. Some either “just wish they were good enough for me…” or they “just wish I wasn’t ‘so good’ “ But no matter what type of man I interact with they all use the same method as their exit strategy. Gaslighting, and I’m starting to take it personally.  I find people take exception to being accused of gaslighting. Gaslighting is an abusive behavior, specifically when…